Dear 2019,
It’s almost time for us to part ways. We had some good fun, reunited with old friends and made some nice memories. Even though we did not see much of the world together, you reminded me that the UK has a lot to offer. From live shows to road trips, you managed to keep me entertained. You also gave me a lot of clarity, providing me with explanations to why I face certain challenges. This not only allowed for better self-understanding but also allowed me to really figure out what works best for me. Instead of trying to adhere to the narratives of others, I was able to take more creative control.
However, 2019, our time together has not always been cheery. You brought me some of the toughest battles that I have ever faced. I experienced some extremely low points and went through my most turbulent season; but I’m grateful for the pain you brought. It forced me to exercise resilience, grow in my faith and seek the help of others. It was a reminder that, despite my capabilities, I am not invulnerable. And even though I hold my independence in high regard, interdependence and community should be valued just as much.
Having to wish you farewell my friend also means closing the chapter on this decade; a ten-year span that has seen me through so much. From completing primary school, to leaving home for university. Amongst other things, I managed to severely injure my foot by doing a punch in karate, get held hostage in a market in Marrakesh and throw my cousin in the bin. It was clearly a period of great achievement. I lived a little, I learnt a lot and made countless mistakes in between. There are still many things that I am yet to figure out (like why girls require travel companions when going to the bathroom), but I’d like to think I’ve come a long way. So, 2019, consider yourself lucky; you got hang out with the best version of me to date.
2019 I want to thank you for seeing me through these 12 months. You have taught me so much through both the joy and the pain. Going into this year I said I wanted to thrive, not merely survive, and with you I began to do that. 2019, I am truly better off for having met you. I look forward to meeting your successor so that I can continue to build upon the foundation we started together. Goodbye my friend.
Best wishes,
Ifeoluwa